Japan Wonder!~!~

Recently, I got to know some Indonesian friends and we had rent a car to BUkit Tinggi. It is situated near to Genting Hilghland. It took us around an hour from Kelana Jaya to reach there. They are very friendly and they looked like japanese. Aren't they?? We went to the Japanese Tea House and rented Japanese costumes to wear. Here are some of the pictures taken. After that, we went to look out point in KL. Will update the second chapter of the pics soon.

Guess which of the above is me??

Tadah!~!~




Everyone seem to be very happy. Smiling all the time. :)

Budi, Angel, Delia and James

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Hello NOtts...

hmmm, last week was the 1st week that I'd enrolled into my uni as a Year 3 student after a very long summer break. I miss holidays lol.. and being a couch potato.. Life is so challenging and yet, tiring when I think bout going back for war again. I'm given an option to choose whether to take Beng (Degree) or Meng (MAster) in Engineering.. and I had to choose 3 subjects out of 5 subjects for this semester.So, now I do not know what to do. hehe.. Anyway, it's a week long holiday break again for raya.. To all my muslims friends out there, Happy RAYA.. :)

GENTING !~!~

In order to mark the end of our long break, me and my friends decided to pamper ourselves with a trip to genting again. It was a nice trip. There are 14 of us, who went, which consists of 9 blokes and 6 hotties. :) Just can't get enough of genting. I'd played the spaceshoot again.. Was so happy. haha. But I've missed out the cockscrew, which are unavailable that day. Got into casino, though I've yet to reach the age limit. haha.. for a second, i think I actually looked mature.

A smaller size of the statue of liberty, which stand greatly next to the pillar of kfc and pizza hut ad...

the floats.. :)

In the bus..

In the cable car..

Dreamland as in UK..

waiting for our turn to play fun kart...The used of showercap to protect us from smelly helmet...

with some of my friends posing in front of first world hotel .. :P

For SOmeone Special...

I would like to wish someone special HAppy 21st Birthday!~!~ THanks for coming into my life.. Words just can't describe how much he means to me.. I wish I have the chance to celebrate it with him and wishing him happy birthday for years to come.. haha... sound like my bday lol... suppose to be his wish ho... :P...



here's a song esp for u, my elephant..

with lots of love,

xoxo jen

hectic holidays..

It's a week before my new sem reopen.. I'd just been to penang and langkawi. Penang is a really nice place to visit.. Love their asam laksa a lot.. though it taste a lot different from Sarawak laksa, I can't stop thinking to taste it again. But the ice kacang of penang is very disappointing. Kuching's ice kacang taste a lot better with the milk in it and out meta hon, best of the best esp the one at hui sing market.. hehe..


Although Penang is a small city as it is only an island, but it has so much thing in it. Esp the religious place.

Langkawi was a nice place to chill out and relax. We'd rented a car to move around langkawi. Without car, it will take days to reach the place u wanna go.. seriously.. We used ferry from Penang to LAngkawi, which took us about 2 and 1/2 hours. We'd rented a car to move around in LAngkawi, but we were confused by the map of the beautiful island. From the jetty, there is a driving distance to the town. And it was linked by a small bridge, which we'd never thought of the town is situated there. I love the scenery there and the way of peolpe living there. Very peaceful and relaxing.

We'd came across a nice Malay stall selling fried banana, fried prawn ball and others for only ten cent. can u believe it? And it taste so nice. It's nice to live in a town which u can survive as the living expenses is low. But the beach there is kinda disappointing, but having to spend my time with him for that few days, is very meaningful.

Next trip hopefully will be redang lo.. haha

One Step At a time

Hurry up and wait
So close, but so far away
Everything that we've always dreamed of
Close enough for us to taste
But we just can't touch

I wanna show the world, but no one knows my name yet
Wonder when and where and how i'm gonna make it
I know i can if I get the chance
In my face as the door keeps slamming
Now i'm feeling more and more frustrated
And i'm getting all kind of impatient waiting

We live and we learn to take
One step at a time
There's no need to rush
It's like learning to fly
Or falling in love
It's gonna happen and it's
Supposed to happen that we
Find the reasons why
One step at a time

We believe and we doubt
We're confused, we got it all figured out
Everything that we always wished for
Could be ours, should be ours, would be ours
If we only knew

When I can't wait any longer
But there's no end in sight
when I need to find the strength
It's the faith that makes me stronger
The only way I get there
Is one step at a time

Who's Got the MOnKey?

Sorry as there’s no pic update in this blog yet as I had just sent my hp to repair due to some backlight prob. Well, cheer up as lots of pics will be coming your way. Currently, I’m working on myself proclaim project of re-engineering of myself.

Recently, I’ve been a shopaholic. I keep on buying and buying things that I assume that I need it and I love it. Last month, I had spent a lot on cosmetics and clothes and I’ve just got my new hair cut and I love it. I’ll post the pic of it after I got my phone back from repair,k?

And Yahoo!~ This is the last week I’ll be working as a trainee. I’ve learned not to take any monkey from people haha. Let me explain the monkey that I’m referring too. One of my university’s lecturer gave an article to us, “Who’s got the monkey?”. There’s 2 type of manager in the office. One is so called the smart one and the other is not so as in management.

Mr. A and Mr. B are manager for a top company. As a manager, there’s of course subordinates who are under them. Let say both of the company has a new business deal and work are coming in for them.

Mr. A and Mr. B has broken the work into small tasks for their subordinates. They gave all these tasks to the subordinates in the beginning of the week. From this, the monkeys are jumping from the back of Mr. A and Mr. B to the back of the subordinates.

As the outcome of the tasks are hard to achieve, the subordinates are cracking their head to solve the problems. Any till Friday, the last day of working day of the week, they still can’t find the solutions. So, they went and meet Mr.A for solutions. Mr. A as a good boss told them he’ll look into this matter and try to solve them. So, all the monkeys from the subordinates back jumped back to Mr. A’s back.As a manager himself, Mr. A has yet to finish all the tasks that he suppose to but having more monkeys on his back simply means he need to work on sat. There he go, going back to work on sat. Even going back to work on sat, doesn’t mean he can manage to finish all the tasks as the monkeys from his back is not only from one subordinates but more than that. SO at the end of the day, as he drive back home from work worrying bout his tasks, GUESS WHAT HE SAW? HE SAW HIS SUBORDINATES PLAYING GOLF AND ENJOYING THEMSELVES.

And as for Mr. B, he also encounter the same problems from his subordinates. When his subordinates meet him, he’ll encourage them to find solutions to it and he’ll discuss with them on Monday if there is still a problem. From these, the monkeys are still stuck on the back of the subordinates and never being transfer to the back of Mr. B.

So, who’s the smart manager? Of course, it’s Mr. B. This story teaches us NEVER EVER TAKE MONKEYS FROM SOMEONE ELSE”S BACK unless that’s what u suppose to do and if only the monkey are from the back of your boss.

As a trainee, my job is to learn something, which is related to engineering line itself. But I had came across people, who ask me to type things and photocopy things, which I think is not relevant to what I suppose to do. At first, I feel it’s ok for me to do it but later on, one of my colluege told me I wasn’t suppose to do it as it’s the job the person himself as I suppose to learn calculations from someother engineers. After I think about it, There’s someone I’ve seen who likes to order people to do things even its not bout the work of the office and they are not even someone who can call the shot.

No matter what, I also have meet nice people who help me through my days at work. Admin people are nice people though and also two of the engineers from the structural side who taught me how to design the house. They taught me a lot in the line of engineering. They told me the pay is shity. Haha. Working for people is like that. That’s how the boss can be the only one who is rich. They had asked me whether I’m interested in working there. I said no as I had more than that in my head. Not as in, helping other people who pay u less and order u around to be rich.

Although I’ve yet to complete the design of the house, but one day, somehow I want to design my own dream house. Again, hopefully. Haha.

Someone told me my blog is boring. Does it? Well, I’m just not someone who like to take pics of myself only unless I’m pretty enough. Haha.

the pic above taken from thomasodin.blogspot.com

Site Visit!~

Last sat, my company that I had internship in organized a site visit to the project that they are currently working on. It was a sunny day. But I’m smart enough to prevent myself from sunburn by 1st, applying sun block and 2nd, wearing a sweater to prevent my delicate hand from sunburn. Hehe. Here are some of the pics that are taken on site.

I looked so funny in the safety head lol. Look as if my head is so big. Haha..

The site people brought us to have a look at the retaining wall near the river. This thing is called the geotube. It is said to protect the side of the land from corrosion. Rather than using sheet pile walls, geotube is used here.

Next up here, the pumping of water at the side of the land to lower down the water level so we can have a look at the geotube.
We were climbing up the wobbly stairs, which are made of wood just to reach here.

During the site visit, the engineers keep on asking me this question. “Are u sure u wanna be a civil engineer?” haha..

From HIM.. :)

A song from Mar entitled We're So FAr Away.. 18 days to go... haih..

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HAPPY 080808

What an auspicious day today!~!~ I bet there’s so much wedding ceremonies being held today lo... congrats to the newly weds.Hope you guys will have 8 babies also.. SO everything 8 (wealth). Haha

Today is also a meaningful day for the China as it is the day of the commencement of the BEIJING OLYMPICS 2008.. Wau!~ How I wish I can be there, but sad sad can’t afford lo... One of my dreams is to travel around the world and China is definitely is in my lists. I can’t wait to visit the Forbidden City and The Temple of Heaven. Heard that the structural designs are very unique. I’ve always admired our chinese culture, esp things related to the King, General, Princesses and Palace. That’s why I love MULAN so much when I was a kid. Haha.. She has been an idol to me esp the part where she pretend to be a guy and trained and fought hard for her country. Girl Power!~ haha...

But the sad thing is I can’t spend it with HIM today, he’s been busy lately and me too.. I’m busy to be more beautiful but not in work. Haha.. I’ve yet to wait for the moment to change from a fat and chubby caterpillar into a beautiful and colorful butterfly, without plastic surgery of course. Wish me luck.. Trying my best.

1st job ever

It’d been the end of the month and now the beginning of a new month.. So guess what? It’s payday.. I’d just got my 1^st month salary and for the first ever job I’d work officially.

From these. I’d learnt a lot though.. Not as in technically but socially. I’d realize that the bigger a company is, the more complicated is the relationship between people. I’d realize it’s not a big deal being a uni student. People won’t look up at u until u really own the graduation cert. There are intellects who have high education but are weak in social in life. Intellects? So what? It’s not a big deal though. I’d realize people who are smart in studies don’t necessary end up being successful. It’s also bout luck.

I believe that all of us have equal status in this life. Although some people are rich since they are young, it’s not a thing they should be proud of, they are just being lucky to be born rich from the property of their family. Instead, if a person is rich and yet being humble, it’s a plus point that he has and he should earn our respects. Drawing a clear line of our own fortune and family fortune is crucial. As in family fortune, remember our ancestors who had worked hard to ensure us to have good life. And remember our future generations also. Ensure that we also do the same thing by providing better life for them. Don’t just spend and spend the money that we have by indulging in unnecessary things.

As in life, I believe we depend so much on each other to survive in this world. If big pride and ego is in u, make sure u try to control it and know the limit, as it won’t bring u anywhere or anything in this world. Perhaps, it’ll make u lose the one u love and the thing u has. Instead, be more humble and down to earth. At times, u’ll see people who live in a more simple life are even happier than those who are rich and ego and never content with what they have. So stay grateful for what u have even u r seeking for more dreams.

Re- Engineering of me.. haha

I'm in the mid of transforming... hehe... like a catterpillar into a butterfly.. hopefully... SO how is it?? haha...

HEALTH & VITAMINs

I went to a WATSON at times square last month with HIM and we came across this.. Funny though as they arrange JUNK FOOD in health section.. Did u see Pringles as Health food? ANd sweets, candies and twisties as vitamins? haha...

Wise Spending

I've been back in kch... As kch has this nice new mall, which was opened less than 6 months ago... Hence, it become my usual hang out place.. They have international brand shop in the mall, which marked the beginning of shopping spree for Kuchingians.. :) Brand like MNG, ROXY, Esprit, Sushi King, BIg Apple Donut, FOS, HOJB, HABIB JEwels, Quicksilver, ROXY and so on... :) feel like back in KL again but the mall is smaller though..BUT there's smth missing.. The difference is he's not with me. :(..

As now is the megasale, there are lot's of discount from various shops..I was supposed to be window shopping with my friend but end up, I brought a shirt and a dress from MNG, the dress is blue in color and the shirt is black with a pic of elephant on it.. So cute.. :P REmind me of him..

Not only that, I also brought a classic watch from City chain.. LOve it.. :) Hopefully he'll love it..

life about to end.. for the piggies

I was driving today and guess whom i saw??

there was so many piggies on the lorry.. but sad though the driver must be selling them off to be slaughtered... And that's how they end their life.. sad sad.. so, advice u to go green.. hehe.. :) save them from pain..


see how cute they are.. so don't eat them if u can.. :)

Why Do Girls Love Jerks???

I came across a Book entitled Why do Guys Love Bitches? which was written by Sherry Argov’s. I think that the book title is kind of interesting so I've tried to browse through some of the pages. In the book it states various reasons why guys prefer bitches rather than nice girls. Most of the reasons are nice girls seem to be desperate and available for their guys. N nice girls also treat their guys too nice.. But I don't find it wrong to treat out bf nice... As some people said guys are only playing with bitches and they will end up marrying a nice girl. :)

Hence, I've decided to come up with my very own version of "WHY DO GIRLS LOVE JERKS?"

There's this chinese quote saying that nan ren pu huai, ni ren pu ai (sorry if wrong pin yin) :P which simple means in english IF GUYS ARE NOT BAD, GIRLS WON'T LOVE THEM..

In my statement, Jerks does not refer to guys who are AH BENG as in having tattoo, drive modified cars and look like a BAD BOY. But bastards here refer to guys who have a dashing look (doesn't need to be GOod Looking or model look. can just look like an elephant.. hehe) they just need to have a type of look which are mysterious and kind of cool. They also have attitude and character.

In the book Why do guys love bitches also does not refer bitches to girls who speak harsh languages and wear sexy clothes and slutty but they are simply women who love themselves more than others.Thus, it made guys feel worthwhile to be with them cause they will never give the sense of security to the guys of a feeling of they belong to the guy after all.

Going back to bastards. Jerks have the type of attitude that whatever they do, they will leave you in ????.. ANd you can never judge what they are thinking and what is on their mind most of the time. Hence, jerks are mysterious and they will leave you ask for more ??? when you hang out with them.

Jerks also poses different characters at different time. Sometimes they are funny and act childish and cute in front of their gf and their family. but when they come to their friends, they try to act so tough and serious and cool. & one of the thing u must admire them is their friends respect them for who they are and they gain respect from their friends through their character and attitude.

Not only that, jerks always try to protect their gf. They does not allow other guys to look at their girl, which means they does not like to show off their gf. They get jealous when they found out other guys try to chase their gf or talk to their gf. They always prefer their gf to be nice girls instead of bitches. They also does not like their gf to feel insecure and dress up sexily & make up as they think this will only attract other guys attention. They are very protective and their gf will only feel safe when she's with her bf. :)

Hence, I don't find it weird if girls prefer jerks. :)
As i'm one of them.. haha

First DAy at Work

Day one was so boring... To be honest,I prefer studying a lot more than working.. Working in office can bored me to death.. Although there are something to do, but being in front of the computer made my eyes sores.. Why on earth do I get myself in this situation as I can just be off to enjoy everyday of my holidays.. I told my mum I won't want to have this kind of life in office next time. The dream of mine is to be MY OWN BOSS.. haha... as working for people will never make me rich at all.. with the little amount of salary every month.. sob sob.. plus I don't think I'll be in the engineering line for the rest of my life.. I just want a degree or master to back me up in my life.. let's think this way, the amount of money to study engineering and business only differ by few thousand per year in my uni. Hence, I rather study engineering cause I wanna prove myself that I'm up to the challenge. whatever guys can do it, so do ladies.. That's why I admire Ivanna Trump (daughter of Donald Trump) than Paris Hilton who just enjoying her life lol....

THE SMARTEST PEOLPE ON EARTH IS THE ONE HIRING THE SMART PEOPLE TO WORK FOR THEM... true isn't it? U do not need to be so smart, but u just need to be rich by hiring smarter people to work for u.. n to help u multiply ur wealth.. BUt the prob that I'm gonna face now is I'm not rich.. haha... hence, I'm determine to build my own wealth.. :) how can i be rich by the time I'm erm.... let say 25, no no 25 too young.. most probably 30 la...or 35.. hehe...

It's either I wanna be my Own Boss or to be a rich tai tai.. hehe... to have a husband who can support me.. i don't mind helping my husband in his business and stay at home taking care of our kids.. hehe.. I just love kids.. Hmmm.. I think the dream of mine is getting out of control... N oh ya, I'm at work now.. hehe... so stop day dreaming... I need to get back to work now.. hehe

the end of my holidays

hm... just got myself a job... sob sob... end of my couch potato job.. i'm gonna brave myself up for my new upcoming challenge as a trainee at a company lol... haih... so lazy la... i didnt even ask them how much is my pay.. i guess it'll be only rm300 per month... trainee lol.. wat to expect.. anyway, wish me all the best for my first ever job tomorrow...

babies.....

BAbies are so so cute... esp babies BOys.. hehe... Just love em so much..They are the gift from HEAVEN for us.. There are cases that irresponsible couple choose to do abortion after getting pregnant from relationships outside marriage.. Even if they choose not to have the babies, they can just give it to people who can't have babies after giving birth to her/him.. They are more gracious and happy to have them although the babies are not from their own blood line..

BAbies are innocent, and even they don't have the right to choose to live in this world, at least give ourself a chance to be part of their life and give them a chance to be part of this beautiful world..

Therefore, we should not look down on single mother or parents who choose to give birth and raise their babies into kids then to be some one in this world. Although, it had been their mistakes for what they did, but nevertheless they admit their mistakes and be responsible on what they did and they totally deserve the respect and honor for what they did in return.. It's their partner who leave them should be blamed cause they cause them to be in this state.. it's not easy to raise ur kids by ur own.. it require a lot of love and determination..


pics sources from internet.. :)

Far from being perfect

There's little voice in me telling me stuffs before I doze off to sleep... Am I thinking to much or what? Feeling unsecure Bout my future... MAde me imagine of negative things that can happened to me.. With all these, I made up stories of my own to solve the imaginary unforeseen situations. I'm not sure why I feel this way.. Is it the pressure I give myself lately? My life is good.. My life is brilliant.. My results is Good.. What else can it be to make me this way? Is it my insecurity Bout the relationship I'm in? I ain't sure.. I'm feeling alone right now..'ve read a news bout a beautiful model committed suicide.. She was only 20.. sad case.. Is it the pressure that she had that drive her to her death..

I'm feeling insecurity bout myself.. BOut how I look.. I know I ain't perfect.. To have a flawless beauty is every girls dream.. I hate the little voices in me telling me that I'm far from being perfect.. Feeling the pain in my heart when I think bout being beautiful inner and outer..Does outer beauty really come first than innder beauty? Outer beauty won't last forever.. Does look matters? are only thin girls can only be classified as beautiful? Is it wrong to have confident in myself for who I am?


May light come after darkness..