NIce Korean Song

One of the song I think it's very meaningful. I brought one of the book Men from Mars and Women from Venus.. Read the first few chapters and it's really true.. I asked him bout it bout the theories shared by the author and he told me that is what is exactly in his mind.

ONE of the theories to be shared from the book for us to understand our better half:

Problem Solving

Men - As a men, they will try to solve the problem they have by themselves. They will not
mention bout the problem to anyone else unless they think that the person they talked to
can help them in finding solutions. They tend to hide themselves in their own world until
they solve the problem and come out again. AND WOMEN actually misunderstand them
cause women tend to try so hard to talk to them cause they thought talking bout it could
make them feel a lot better. But men does not talk bout their problems, so women tend to
thought their men does not trust them to talk bout what's bothering them. ACTUALLY
MEN JUST NEED TO HIDE IN THEIR OWN CAVE UNTIL THEY SOLVE THEIR
PROBLEMS. Women should just leave them alone. :)

Women - We like to talk about our problems over and over again to whom we may think care
about us. WE JUST NEED SOMEONE TO COMPLAIN TO. In end, after talking,
we'll eventually feel so much better and the problem is no longer a problem for us.
And men thought whatever problem we told them, we are asking for solutions bout
actually we are not. They tend to try to put on the MR FIX IT hat and suggest us the
solutions and we get more frustrated after that. ACTUALLY WE JUST NEED THEM
TO LISTEN.

Listen to the song i posted and you'll understand how hard women try to fit into their man's cave but they don't realize that it'll only make the matter worse if they try to help their man to solve the problem. MEN as being egoist themselves have their own pride when comes to problem solving, if a women tried to suggest how to solve it, they will feel as if they are useless. :)