Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Why Do Girls Love Jerks???

I came across a Book entitled Why do Guys Love Bitches? which was written by Sherry Argov’s. I think that the book title is kind of interesting so I've tried to browse through some of the pages. In the book it states various reasons why guys prefer bitches rather than nice girls. Most of the reasons are nice girls seem to be desperate and available for their guys. N nice girls also treat their guys too nice.. But I don't find it wrong to treat out bf nice... As some people said guys are only playing with bitches and they will end up marrying a nice girl. :)

Hence, I've decided to come up with my very own version of "WHY DO GIRLS LOVE JERKS?"

There's this chinese quote saying that nan ren pu huai, ni ren pu ai (sorry if wrong pin yin) :P which simple means in english IF GUYS ARE NOT BAD, GIRLS WON'T LOVE THEM..

In my statement, Jerks does not refer to guys who are AH BENG as in having tattoo, drive modified cars and look like a BAD BOY. But bastards here refer to guys who have a dashing look (doesn't need to be GOod Looking or model look. can just look like an elephant.. hehe) they just need to have a type of look which are mysterious and kind of cool. They also have attitude and character.

In the book Why do guys love bitches also does not refer bitches to girls who speak harsh languages and wear sexy clothes and slutty but they are simply women who love themselves more than others.Thus, it made guys feel worthwhile to be with them cause they will never give the sense of security to the guys of a feeling of they belong to the guy after all.

Going back to bastards. Jerks have the type of attitude that whatever they do, they will leave you in ????.. ANd you can never judge what they are thinking and what is on their mind most of the time. Hence, jerks are mysterious and they will leave you ask for more ??? when you hang out with them.

Jerks also poses different characters at different time. Sometimes they are funny and act childish and cute in front of their gf and their family. but when they come to their friends, they try to act so tough and serious and cool. & one of the thing u must admire them is their friends respect them for who they are and they gain respect from their friends through their character and attitude.

Not only that, jerks always try to protect their gf. They does not allow other guys to look at their girl, which means they does not like to show off their gf. They get jealous when they found out other guys try to chase their gf or talk to their gf. They always prefer their gf to be nice girls instead of bitches. They also does not like their gf to feel insecure and dress up sexily & make up as they think this will only attract other guys attention. They are very protective and their gf will only feel safe when she's with her bf. :)

Hence, I don't find it weird if girls prefer jerks. :)
As i'm one of them.. haha

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